Rosetta M. T. Stith, Ph.D. (1945-2017)
MSA SC 3520-13615
Biography:
In front of a body of students, Dr. Rosetta Stith stated that "somebody
had to put the light in your bulb…that light made you who you are, even when
you didn't know who you are."1 While
she was referencing mothers, Dr. Stith also ignited lights for countless
students as she was a fierce supporter of assisting pregnant teenagers,
specifically with education. She helped them to “succeed against overwhelming
odds associated with poverty, limited family support, and negative societal
attitudes.”2 Dr. Stith not only changed the lives of
teenagers from
Rosetta Ma Theia Stith was born on January 5, 1945, to Elijah and Edna Stith in
Theatrical by nature, Dr. Stith’s parents aspired for her to be on stage, an
idea to which she commented “the stage would be grand, of course.”7 However,
extending the compassion of her family onto others, Dr. Stith was drawn towards
an educational career path.8
Her talent in education was recognized as she was told “you have flair. You are
a teacher. You are a principal, too.”9 With
this in mind, Dr. Stith graduated from
In 1974, Dr. Stith graduated from
Dr. Stith dedicated a significant portion of her life to improving the school and the lives of its students. Her main focus became to keep pregnant teenagers in school. While she recognized that teenage pregnancy was not typically ideal, she was adamant about correctly handling such a situation once it occurred. Bluntly, she would tell the students "you made one mistake, don't make another. Stay in school.”16
In the following years, Dr. Stith worked tirelessly to help Paquin and its students. It was recognized that “when she [got] an idea that she [thought was] going to work and going to benefit her school, she [didn’t] wait around. She [went] out and [got] it. It [didn’t] matter if [it was] new or if we [had] no money -- she [went out] and [found] money to bring these services in for her students."17 Dr. Stith worked extended hours, both in the morning and at night, while going above standard calls of duty through such actions as comforting troubled teens (on the telephone and in person), helping with medical needs, writing morning announcements, and hugging the babies of the teenagers.18 A witness noted that she would work “till 9 p.m., filling out grant applications to garner additional funds, only to return to work at 7 a.m.”19 As a further testament to her dedication, more witnesses remarked that Dr. Stith would track down teen fathers, help with teens in labor, and lecture teen moms on proper womanly etiquette, and on proper ways to care for their children.20
One result of Dr. Stith’s efforts was significant development at Paquin. Instead of a dull, broken building, it became an open space full of warmth, decorations, plants, and artwork from both the students and their children.21 She made sure there was a full library with materials for students and children’s books for their toddlers.22 Dr. Stith created a day care center which doubled as a family skills lab. This allowed teens to attend academic classes, and then learn important parenting skills and child developmental knowledge with their children after class.23 She created the status quo that each mother would have lunch with her child, an event she called “peas-in-the-hair-time.”24 Additionally, Dr. Stith hired health care professionals to work at the school in a health center25 so that medical services would be readily available to the students. 26
Further, Dr. Stith created a computer lab with academic computer programs that would allow teen mothers
to visit school and take a few lessons for short periods directly after the birth of their child
until they could attend school full-time once again.27
One of her most notable ideas at the school was creating a sewing lab, called
the Entrepreneur Room,28
which not only gave students valuable sewing skills that made them more
marketable on the job market, but produced baby clothes and gifts that the
students could sell to Baltimore stores.29
This room was impressively modern as it had multi-needle, computerized sewing
machines and other such industrial equipment.30
Up to twenty-five students could work in the room at a time, and the skills
they learned allowed them to enter the job market earning between $7 to $10 an
hour. Eventually, the school started it own line, called Young Sensations,
which was sold at major stores in the
Another result of Dr. Stith’s actions was an overall increase in the standards of life and attitudes of her pregnant teenagers. One student of Paquin recalled that "being a pregnant teen, society tends to make you feel degraded. Like you're going to end up on welfare."34 However, Dr. Stith worked diligently to dispel such negative feelings. She expressed a “relentlessly positive message to her predominantly black group of 300 girls.”35 To do this, she taught her students about things such as avoiding degrading music. Dr. Stith believed that many of the choices of the girls had “to do with the culture they're living in.”36 Therefore, she encouraged her students to make life changes that involved surrounding themselves with positive culture that would not degrade them.37 Additionally, she encouraged her students to avoid peer pressure and practice abstinence until older ages.38 However, knowing that abstinence is not the only option, she pushed for the allowance of her students to use the contraceptive Norplant, which was effective and easy for teens to use as it was inserted under the skin and remained active for five years.39 When critics called the used of Norplant genocidal, Dr. Stith replied "I'll tell you what's genocidal…when girls don't go to school -- that's genocidal." In 1993, Paquin became the first school to offer the contraceptive.40 Dr. Stith was constantly fighting to better the lives of her students, and, to jump-start the process of positivity, she would take them to encouraging cultural events, such as the “Pandora's Box: Women in Classical Greece” exhibit at the Walters Art Museum that demonstrated how, in Ancient Greece, women who gave birth to children at an early age were well respected citizens.41
To further increase the standards of her student’s lives, Dr. Stith personally raised money to help with their college expenses and tried diligently to find homes for those students who had been rejected by their parents due to their pregnancies.42 Finally, she successfully lobbied the Maryland legislature to make Paquin an exception to the law that required drop-out students to wait six months before returning to the classroom, and she was the driving force behind the implementation of an on-site GED program at Paquin.43
Dr. Stith saw positive results, as many of her students developed
optimistic ideals. One teen father expressed that he didn’t want his girlfriend
to “be just another statistic. [He] wanted her to be able to show the kids when
the time comes that she did finish [school]." Additionally, students such
as Traychel McLeod (age 17) planned to go to college,44
and many succeeded: Danuella Roberts was the first student to receive the Paquin
scholarship to the
While working “all the time for the girls and their families and their
babies,” Dr. Stith also earned a doctorate degree from
Dr Stith’s amazing influences do not stop at Paquin, however. While still serving as principal, in 1994 she spearheaded The Ro Show, which was featured on Comcast Cablevision.54 Having irreplaceable first hand knowledge, Dr. Stith “addressed the social issues around themes of needy parents and children on this show.”55 After the show ended in 2000, she started another on the same station titled Kids Talk with Dr. Ro, which she produced and hosted from 2001 to 2004.56 Although Dr. Stith’s positions in media and academia did cross, she maintained the media career after retiring as principal of Paquin, a position she had held for thirty years.57
Throughout the duration of her media career, Dr. Stith made significant
accomplishments. She was able to write, produce, and host on an array of radio
and television shows pertaining to important issues about teenage pregnancy and
women in general.58 She
also distributed programming and content for shows of similar nature.59 In
addition to addressing these issues, Dr. Stith would provide information about
support organizations and services that assisted women and pregnant teenagers.
Further she appeared on prominent programs such as NBC News, Prime Time, Cross Fire, The McLaughlin Group, Geraldo, Leeza, The
Dr. Stith received many honors and awards throughout her lifetime. This
includes the Woman of the Year Award in education from the Zeta Phi Beta
Sorority and the Alpha Zeta Chapter,64
the Recognition and Appreciation Award from the Greater Grace World Outreach
Church for outstanding educational service on behalf of city teen-agers and
families,65 and
the 1992 Howard L. Cornish Humanitarian Award from Morgan State University
Alumni Association for outstanding work with expectant teen-age mothers and
their children.66
Additionally, she was recognized by
Dr. Stith never married or had any children of her own.69
Her family was in every respect the teenagers and their children that she
helped throughout her careers. Besides enjoying time with her pet poodle, and
occasional trips to the spa or vacation spots, she dedicated everything she
could to her students and audiences. Dr. Stith almost single handedly “saved
countless people from death and hopelessness” while giving them “a sense of the
possibility of their lives.”70 Her persona and unique look, “blond hair --
swept to one side in an asymmetrical style -- fuchsia rose pinned against a
black dress, high heels, ankle bracelet and long orange and black fingernails,”
will continue to be an important influence in
Dr. Stith passed away on May 18, 2017, in Pikesville, Maryland, at the age of 72.
Endnotes
1. Laura Lippman, “At Paquin, Memories and Thanks It’s a Happy, and Tearful, Mother’s Day,” The Sun, 08 May 1993 return to text
2. Carolyn B.
Stegman, Women of Achievement in
3. Holly Selby, “The Doc Is On Call Paquin School’s Rosetta Stith Nurtures ‘Her Babies” and Their Offspring,” The Sun, 11 November 1990 return to text
4. Ibid. return to text
5. Ibid. return to text
6. Ibid. return to text
7. Ibid. return to text
8. Ibid. return to text
9. Ibid. return to text
10. Ibid. return to text
11. Stegman, Women of Achievement in
12. Ibid., pg. 130 return to text
13. Ibid., pg. 130 return to text
14. Ibid., pg. 130 return to text
15. Stephanie Shapiro, “Helping Kida Who Are Parents; Interview: The Principal of the Paquin School for Expectant and Parenting Adolescents Has Made the School a National Model for Educating Teen-agers At Risk—And Their Children,” The Sun, 08 June 1997 return to text
16. Selby, “The Doc Is On Call return to text
17. Ibid. return to text
18.Ibid. return to text
19. Ibid. return to text
20. Ibid. return to text
21. Ibid. return to text
22. Ibid. return to text
23. Ibid. return to text
24. Ibid. return to text
25. Stegman, Women of Achievement in
26. Ibid., pg. 130 return to text
27. Ibid., pg. 130 return to text
28. Shapiro, “Helping Kida Who Are Parents” return to text
29. Stegman, Women of Achievement in
30. Shapiro, “Helping Kida Who Are Parents” return to text
31. Ibid. return to text
32. Stegman, Women of Achievement in
33. Laura Loh, “City Stands By Decision on Paquin Cuts; Copeland Reaffirms Budgetary Move After Surprise Visit to School; City Stands by Decision on Cutbacks at Paquin,” The Sun, 12 February 2005 return to text
34. Selby, “The Doc Is On Call return to text
35. James Bock, “We Really Haven’t Gone As Far As We Thought We Had; King Verdict and Riots Bring Blacks up Short,” The Sun, 03 May 1992 return to text
36. Gregory Kane, “Pass Up That ‘Baby Mama” Dance, Girls,” The Sun, 22 March 2006 return to text
37. Ibid. return to text
38. Ibid. return to text
39. John Dorsey, “The Secret is Out; ‘Pandora’s Box’: Exhibit nearing End of Run at the Walters is Creating Rare Excitement, Here and At Venues to Come,” The Sun, 03 January 1996 return to text
40. Shapiro, “Helping Kida Who Are Parents” return to text
41. Dorsey, “The Secret is Out” return to text
42. Stegman, Women of Achievement in
43. Shapiro, “Helping Kida Who Are Parents” return to text
44. “For High School Girls, Norplant Debate Hits Home,” New York Times, 07 March 1993 return to text
45. Robert Hilson, “Insistence, Care From Boyfriend, Father Help Pregnant Teen-agers Get Diploma,” The Sun, 10 June 1992 return to text
46. Selby, “The Doc Is On Call return to text
47. Ibid. return to text
48. Ibid. return to text
49. Ibid. return to text
50. Kane, “Pass Up That ‘Baby Mama” Dance” return to text
51. Shapiro, “Helping Kida Who Are Parents” return to text
52. Paul
Valentine, “Motherhood 101;
53. Ibid. return to text
54. Rosetta Stith, “WhenYouNeedToKnowAndGrow,” Wordpress (blog), August 15, 2013, http://whenyouneedtoknowandgrow.wordpress.com/about-dr-ro/ return to text
55. Stegman, Women of Achievement in
56. Stith, “WhenYouNeedToKnowAndGrow” return to text
57. Ibid. return to text
58. Ibid. return to text
59. Ibid. return to text
60. Ibid. return to text
61. Stegman, Women of Achievement in
62. Stith, “WhenYouNeedToKnowAndGrow” return to text
63. Ibid. return to text
64. “Rosetta
Stith, Principal of the
65. “Rosetta Stith, Principal of the Laurence G. Paquin,” The Sun, 29 March 1992 return to text
66. “Susan P.
Leviton, Professor at the
67. “Here’s To…,” The Sun, 10 May 1992 return to text
68. Here’s To,” The Sun, 14 February 1993 return to text
69. “Here’s To…” return to text
70. Stegman, Women of Achievement in
71. Selby, “The Doc Is On Call" return to text
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